Loving More Than One

Polyamory as it relates to my life and written from my perspective only. MY thoughts, feelings and opinions.

Pot of Gold at the End of the Rainbow

on August 30, 2009


Great changes may not happen right away, but with effort even the difficult may become easy.– Bill Blackman

This weekend was an example of what makes all the effort we put into our relationship worthwhile.

Dirk needed the time off it seems and I’m glad he was able to get it. We left for Arwen and Chane’s house about 12:30am Saturday morning (once Dirk got off work and had a shower). All of us went straight to bed immediately after we got there. Come to think of it, Arwen was the only smart one and was already in bed.

Once we woke up early to get to the party I could tell Dirk was in a great mood. Basically no sleep but in a great mood. He and Arwen talked to much, made love, talked, made love again….they interacted much like they used to. Something Dirk has been wanting. Things more like the were with them in the beginning without the bad affects of NRE. As soon as he told me this, all I could do was grab his face and give him a kiss. I was so happy for him. For both of them. Seeing him like that was great. If the time with them had ended then, I would have considered it a great success. I still do but, luckily for us all, it wasn’t over. I can’t tell you what a good feeling it gave me to see him so happy. Only those who have actually felt something such as that…pure happiness for your love knowing that someone else he loves made him so happy.

We went to the party had came back last night so that Arwen could be at work at 7:00am since she couldn’t get the whole weekend off. After sleeping in to 9:00 I spent some time with Dirk before Chane got up and then I had some time to watch a favorite TV show with the two of them. Dirk and I took a short nap and Arwen came home. Kissed us all and spent a few minutes with Dirk. Now we are deciding what to have for supper tonight. Dirk and Arwen are going to run to the store and I’ll get a few minutes alone with Chane. Then we’ll cook and watch a show or movie. We all just want to chill after such a busy day yesterday.

Times like this make up for so many of the rougher times. Only good feelings all around.


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